If you ain’t changing it you choosing it…….

If you’re not changing it you choosing it. It’s difficult to take a look at yourself and acknowledge that you need to change things. Changing is a tough task, but if it were easy everybody would do it. The truth is that some people won’t make changes because they have become comfortable within their space. Even if that space is dysfunctional, some people prefer to stay in it because it’s normal  for them. They have become comfortable in a uncomfortable situation. The thing is that, they have chosen to remain in this uncomfortable state of being, but they continue to complain about the state they are in. Whatever you’re not changing you are choosing.Why would a person complain about a problem that not only are they creating, but they also have the ability to resolve? If you don’t like something, change it. If you’re not feeling it then move on. If you don’t change it, fine but don’t complain about it and blame other people. Accept the fact that you are in a situation of your choosing. Your life will change when you do. Some would rather spend more time talking about the problem than the solution. If you are going to work on yourself, you have to plan your life by what’s possible for you.  It’s not going to be easy but, you have to decide that it’s worth it. Their will be pain along the way, but the plan makes the pain endurable. I think that’s why they say only the strong survive. You have the strength, courage and determination necessary to become who you want to be. Will it be easy? No; but you’ve got to remind yourself that it’s worth it. Once you’ve decided what you’re going to do you have to remain focused on the finish-line and remember why you started in the first place.  Once you get started spend all of your energy focusing on where you’are going and not where you”ve been. If you spend all your energy focusing on where you’ve been you won’t have energy for where you’ going. So it’s time to make the decision to accept what you can’t change, but also to change what you can’t accept.

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